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Satyricon "The DEFINING MOMENT: Getting What You Want Out of Kink" with GrayDancer

  • 01/12/2019
  • 2:00 PM - 5:30 PM

For our first meeting of the new year, we will be bringing you "The DEFINING MOMENT: Getting What You Want Out of Kink" featuring Madison's very own GrayDancer!

This class is a practical, step by step guide to fully realizing your kinky self. Starting from fantasy, Graydancer takes you through a process that gets you to that defining moment, the ineffable feeling of fulfillment when that fantasy is made real. Along the way you will also learn tools of risk-management, figuring out what aftercare is needed, and most of all answering the most important question: How can we do that again?

Whether you’re into rope, leather, chains, or fuzzy bunny suits, the Defining Moment can offer you tools to take your play to a more visceral level, from a place of internal motivation rather than external. What do you want to DO? Rather than start with what you saw in a picture or book, let’s focus on the results you want. Whether you want to play for sex, for pretty, for pain, or some combination, the focus will be on how to DO what you want to do, using principles rather than step-by-step processes. It’s an interactive class with plenty of class participation, and demonstrations. The skill level of this class is appropriate for anyone from the rank beginner to intermediate and advanced, because of its focus on practical skills and principles-based instruction. This has been one of Graydancer’s most popular classes at venue after venue because of its value to kinksters of all levels and interests.

About The Presenter:

Graydancer has been teaching, performing, and advocating for kink and BDSM for over a decade. He has worked professionally in web, video, and social media for several clients ranging from to the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom to the Kink Academy. You can also hear Graydancer as a guest on various podcasts such as Polyamory Weekly and Dart’s Domain, or his own Ropecast (the longest-running kink podcast on the web). Gray was featured on Our America with Lisa Ling: 50 Shades of Kink which aired in January of 2013 on the Oprah Winfrey Network. While his roots lie in bondage, Gray’s focus has evolved over time to subjects such as power exchange relationships, improving consent practices, leather culture, and the educational aspects of kink. He was the first to apply Open Space principles to a kink event, creating GRUEs which have been held at over 45 locations in the U.S., Canada, and Europe. He also directs ROPECRAFT, a rope bondage convention that’s “Knot- for everyone.” Currently he resides in the Bondage Capital of the World, Madison, WI where he is working on becoming a total GILF.

*You can drop into the Sanctuary starting at 2 pm to socialize while we set up the space. Meeting will begin at 2.30 pm. Dinner will follow the meeting at a nearby restaurant.

NOTE: You do not have to be a member of the Freyja Project to attend this meeting. If you intend to attend Grind the evening of the meeting you will need to either have a monthly membership or buy your guest pass/ticket by Friday night at 11.59 pm. See for more information about membership and access to play events.*

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